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What Makes an Exceptional Boss?

When someone says, "I've got a lousy boss!" listeners usually nod in understanding, because we have all been there and somehow comprehend without much explanation.
 
But when someone announces they have a great boss, we want to know why. What makes your boss so great? Is he or she doing something that I can do also?
 
It begins with the concept of "boss" - as opposed to manager or leader. There are managers who become so absorbed in managing things, like numbers and call sheets, that they totally miss the human part of the equation. Conversely, there are leaders who are so charismatic that we charge up their hill, only to find nothing at the top of the hill. The leader's plan was bad, and we have misspent our faith.
A real "boss" brings the best of both worlds.
A real "boss" will be very clear on the following four points:
 
- A Workable Plan...The goal will be exciting. The payoff, if we
  accomplish the goal, will be worth our hard effort. The plan will be
  painstakingly thought out. It will be carefully and completely
  communicated to everyone who will have a part in its success.
  Everyone involved will have a chance for input and buy-in. It
  becomes workable when everyone with a part to play thinks it will
  work and wants it to work.
- A Team...A great boss will pick a team with whom I am proud to
  work. People who inspire and contribute and who make me want to
  inspire and contribute. A great team will coalesce only around the
  kind of boss that takes more obvious pleasure in the successes. There
  can be no great team without an unselfish boss. It's a lucky person
  who gets to work once in a career on such a team.
- A Job That Fits Each Team Member...We all need a job that we can
  do but that stretches us. We need to know how the job fits into the
  whole. Nothing is so confusing and uninspiring as a "chore" for which
  we don't know the purpose or intent. Our job needs to be tough
  enough so that we will feel good when it's accomplished. We need
  very much to hear our successes publicly celebrated.
- A Great Boss Will Have A Personal Interest In My Success...
  This will be visceral and critical. Going back to the letter at the top
  of the page, if you and I as bosses don't signal clearly to those we
  boss that we are as interested in their success as we are in our
  own, we will lose good people, and in the end we will simply be
  stymied in business.
 
Good bosses are defined by the people who work for them, not by themselves. If you are not a good boss, you don't deserve to advance in your company.